I hate hugs. Especially from the opposite sex, I just get stiff. How can I fix that?

Maybe if you look at it in a different lite & think of it more of them caring for you & just want to have a close feeling to you to show their affections. It doesn't mean anything more than the fact they like you & feel they want to feel a closeness to you. There has to be something about your nature that gives off a warmness & it just automatically draws people twds. you. This is a good thing tho as you're not tho't of as a "cold uncaring" person. Take it instead as a compliment to your personality & maybe that may be of help to you. I'd much rather be tho't of as a warm like able person as regards to a cold stiff standoffish person. Maybe try to change your way of thinking & it may be of help to you...best to you...:)