Plug won't go through ear?

I just stretched my ear to 14 g (first stretch) and put the plug in my left ear with no problems, but my right took much longer and gave me a harder time. I finally got the plug in my right ear, but it won't poke through the other side. I've been pushing it in but it won't budge and I even used water as a lubricant. It's just sitting halfway in my ear right now...